Wal-mart is an Arkansas institution. With its headquarters in Bentonville, the state is understandably proud of its most profitable business. I appreciate the good work that Wal-mart does for communities around the country. I understand that it is incredibly convenient to have a one-stop shopping experience. I get it….and I still hate the store and avoid the crowds at all cost!
I hate the parking lots that are a zoo where people seem to forget all the laws of driving. I hate the fact that items seem to be moved to a different location weekly. I hate the shopping carts that never seem to have four working wheels. I really hate the crowded aisles…..although it can sometimes be entertaining to view the “people of Wal-mart” in their natural habitat. (Admit it, you also go into the store wondering why someone didn’t tell them that the look was not appropriate for general consumption!)
When I have to get items from Wal-mart, I take advantage of the pick-up service to avoid setting foot in the store. I’m convinced that the people who staff that area are much more happy because they get to escape the madness on a regular basis. Last week, I didn’t plan my life as well as I should have and found that I simply had to make a Wal-mart run or not eat for a few days.
I sat in the parking lot and carefully made my list so I wouldn’t get distracted by conveniently placed displays. I only needed five small items, so there was no need to wrestle with a shopping cart. Carrying everything in my arms would allow me to zip through the aisles quickly, get the items on my list, and then get the heck out the door.
I grabbed a half-gallon of milk – the last item on my list – and made my way toward the express lanes. As I headed down the center aisle, I glanced to my left in case I had forgotten something that I needed. Above all, I wanted to make sure I didn’t have to come back inside the store. That’s when I heard the fateful “Excuse me?” I tried to keep walking, assuming that the woman could not be calling me since I hadn’t seen anyone I recognized. Of course, my curiosity got the best of me and I glanced back….and there she was. “Excuse me, can you help me?” This was not the interruption I wanted on my lazy afternoon. I was just dashing in to grab a few things and my hands were full!
The woman was probably in her early 60s and her shopping cart was full of items. My first thought was to tell her that I didn’t work for the retail chain or that I was really in a rush and needed to be on my way. The good angel on my other shoulder told me to stop and see what the woman needed. (Truthfully, it was probably the voice of my mother threatening me with a wet noodle if I didn’t help this lady. Some things never change!)
I walked over to the woman’s shopping basket. That’s when she proceeded to tell me that she needed two additional 24-packs of Dr. Pepper placed in her cart and she wondered if I could help her. Her request irritated me initially. She already had one box of the beverage in her cart and my hands were clearly full. Was I really supposed to place all of my items on a shelf, rearrange the items in her cart to make sure that nothing was crushed, and then take the drinks off the shelf for her? Doesn’t she know what an inconvenience this is? That’s when she said, “I’m sorry to bother you, but there was no one else who looked as though they might help.”
And that’s when I told her it was no problem, put down my things, and helped her. We briefly made conversation as I saw the items in her cart and mentioned that it looked as though there was going to be quite a celebration at her place this evening. “Oh, these things are not for me. I’m a care giver. My new client is not doing well, so when she told me she had been craving a few food items I offered to make a shopping trip for her.” Talk about putting things back into perspective! I was worried about the inconvenience that loading 2 boxes of drinks would have on my day. As I finished placing things for her, I was ashamed of my initial response and thanked her for the important work that she does so lovingly for those who most need her help.
I made the quick drive to my apartment complex and unloaded my two bags. After putting things away, I sat down to finish reading the day’s Scripture reading that I had begun earlier. Tears welled in my eyes as I read this passage from Matthew 25:
Then the righteous will answer him, saying “Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink?”. . .And the King will answer them, “Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.” (Matthew 25:37-40, ESV)
I wasn’t looking for a life lesson in Wal-mart, but I think I got one that I won’t soon forget.