Feb 17 – What are you struggling with the most right now?
At the close of this Monday back in the office, I’m not sure how much I really want to face the struggle that is currently dominating my world. But this is a place for me to be honest. So here goes…..my biggest struggle right now is dealing with the negativity that is so pervasive in my world at the moment.
I can already hear many telling me to hold the presses a second. I’m calling people out for being negative? Me, of all people? I know, I know. I can get into a negative mindset in a moment. I suppose that is part of the reason why I’m struggling with it so much right now. I’m in a fairly good head space, finding lots of hope for the future and pleased with some current trends that I am sensing.
Others don’t appear so hopeful. There’s negativity over relationships. People are upset about a lack of connection in their group. Some are fretting over the future of the school because of challenges related to tuition and recruitment. A boy doesn’t like the way a girl looked at him across the room. A student is convinced that a professor absolutely hates them.
Negativity is like a cancer. It spreads quickly and without warning. It can choke the life out of anyone in a moment. Even the most optimistic among us can become susceptible to its pull when we are faced with negative attitudes repeatedly. It is destructive. It becomes a downward spiral that seems to have no escape.
So I find myself burrowing away when the negativity in my world becomes so immense. It’s not that I don’t want to be with my friends. That’s not the case at all. I just have to choose my battles carefully and fight to overcome the negativity that would like to overwhelm me. I know that I am in the greatest danger of giving in to the negative thoughts when I am tired or feeling overwhelmed. With my past history with depression, I have to know my limits and protect myself at all costs. I choose to fight for my personal feelings of hopefulness and peace.
Does this mean I’m upset with those around me who are struggling at the moment? Not at all! I’ve been there before and know that I will be there again sometime in the future. Some of my friends just need time to rejuvenate and find themselves again. Some need stress to be relieved. Others need to find emotional health. All of us — me included — need to remember to look to Jesus in our times of greatest negativity and allow Him to restore our hope.