Woohoo! Second day of the month and a second post. I must be on a roll or something. Ha! (Edit: This post was mostly written on 11/2/19. Late night conversation in my NATS hotel room with a friend interrupted its publication on that day. I’ll still count it as getting the prompt completed on time though!) Today’s prompt has caused me to think a little more today to tell you what I don’t share. I began thinking about material things and I was quickly aware of the fact that I consider myself very generous. I will share lots of things if I think someone wants it….
….unless you want to share my drink. It’s not that I think it’s filthy or anything. I just don’t share drinks with many people. I have never willingly taken a sip of another person’s beverage or offered them a swig of mine, but when I came down with mono in graduate school, I heard the horror stories of contracting the illness by sharing glasses. I have never been so ill in my life and will do anything necessary to avoid that condition again. If I take a sip from your glass or offer you my drink, you are one of a select group. Honestly, it I feel comfortable enough to ask you to hold my beverage, that takes extreme trust on my part. There are a few people that I would ever consider reaching for their glass and taking a drink…..and most of them are not biological family members.
Perhaps my beverage habit is a bit obsessive. But as I continued thinking throughout the day, I came up with another thing that I don’t readily share. I don’t share the real me very often. That sounds very strange, but it’s true. I tend to let people think that they know me well, but few have really seen me let all of my walls down. The man behind the walls is not extremely different from the person I share with the world….but the few that get into the inner circle are my most trusted companions and have seen the good, the bad, and the ugly. Many of them first got to know me in Southern California. There were a few in Tennessee who knew me fairly well and I’m so blessed to have a couple of extremely close friends with me now in Texas. They know things that I rarely talk about regarding my past, my secrets, my hopes, my worries, and my life. They don’t know these things because they are my friends. They know these things because they dared to asked insightful questions and earned my trust.