Good grief, I’m tired! I am writing at the end of the second day of the Fall semester and I already feel as though I’ve run a marathon. Trying to teach through a mask while maintaining my distance from my students is tough. Worries about everyone’s health takes a mental toll. Everyone is pleasant in the halls, but there is so much tension in the air, it is palpable.
Today looked as though it would be a fairly light day for me. I started the day with a private piano lesson before moving into class piano. The rest of the day was to be devoted to finishing up lesson plans and to practice. However, I felt like I was in a fog and could not get my brain wrapped around anything. Just as I finally got around to beginning to work on a piece that is causing me a lot of stress and worry, a piano down the hall began to pound out heavy chords that were in a contrary rhythm to mine. I was attempting to work out some rhythmic figures that were giving me grief. I could not focus on the metronome next to me because of the chords. I became frustrated and moved to my desk to get some other work done.
After a few minutes at my desk, the piano playing stopped. So I went back to my practicing. You guessed it…..the bombastic chords began again. Now I was simply angry. So I went to walk around the building and take a deep breath. Did I have a right to be angry? Not at all. It’s just a common problem in our building that there is no sound-proofing. We work around the bleed through on a regular basis. I just could not do it today. I was ready to bite someone’s head off if they approached me in just the wrong way. Thankfully, I didn’t have an interaction with another human until I had settled myself and regained some perspective.
Do I always manage my stress well? Not on your life! I snap at people and take my frustration out on others. Then I feel even worse. I’m learning to step away and allow my mind to settle. I’m also finding that changing tasks (when it’s possible) also helps me out. That’s not always an option…..and those are tough times to manage the stress.
How am I managing my stress right now? Not very well, honestly. I’ve been on the verge of tears multiple times this week and I am not resting well. I look at everything that needs to be done and I feel completely overwhelmed. To my detriment, I pull away from those that love me when I start to feel as though I’m at the end of my rope. I climb into my corner and shut out the rest of the world. I just have to monitor myself and make sure that I don’t isolate too long to the point that it becomes unhealthy. Right now, I’m making a point to spend time in the Word before beginning each day and reminding myself that I am not in this current situation alone. All of my colleagues are feeling the strain. Some are better at hiding their stress. But I can see it in their eyes. We just want to make music and take care of our students. Unfortunately, we are having to think about a lot of other things at the moment. We feel the weight and take the responsibility very seriously. Right now, we just need to make sure that we are protecting our physical and mental health and reminding ourselves that it won’t always be this way.