Jan 5 – What are three things that bring you joy in life?
Okay, let’s start with a few disclaimers before I launch into my answers. The question clearly asks for “things” that bring joy — so that disqualifies people from my answer. Obviously being with my Mom brings me great joy as do my “chosen family” of people that I chose to do life with on a regular basis. I’ve also decided not to include the obvious answers that most people would expect. If you know me at all, you know the role that music and books play in my emotional health and joyfulness. So there’s no need to share those details. Now, let’s get down to the three things that bring me joy.
1) Chocolate. This might not be a surprise, but I do think it needs some clarification. Not all chocolate qualifies. I prefer milk chocolate, but not all milk chocolate is the same. Joy comes with REALLY GOOD chocolate. I don’t find it very often, but when I do I am in a very happy place. The performers that were with me on November’s Midland Opera tour saw me enjoying good chocolate and finding a VERY happy place. If the good chocolate is covering really good caramel, I’m in Heaven!
2) Museums. I have absolutely no skill in the traditional visual arts. I cannot draw anything other than a stick figure — and those are not very good! Painting is an abstract effort for me. I don’t like getting my hands dirty, so sculpture and ceramics are out of the question. Still, I have an artistic spirit and I enjoy viewing the visual expressions of talented artists. I have fond memories of visiting MOMA and the Getty Museum in Los Angeles. Whenever I travel to a major city alone, I make it a point to check out the art scene. But it’s not just an appreciation of major works that I enjoy. I also enjoy seeing the work of local craftsmen and artisans who may not be well known, but still bring excellence to their work. I don’t know what is technically good, but I know what speaks to my spirit and evokes an emotional response within me. Those are the pieces that I most enjoy and find myself wanting to return to over and over.
3) Travel. It doesn’t matter whether I’m going by car, plane, or train, I just like to go! The destination is not as important either. I love exploring metropolitan areas, but I can also spend a quiet weekend in a quaint berg with a few books and some local restaurants. Sometimes I want to be alone and see what I can find. Other trips are meant for companionship. I have stayed in lush hotels in the best areas of the city and crashed on the floor of a mountain cabin with a group of guys (although I doubt there are many more “floor crashes” in my future). There’s always something interesting to do, too. Shows and concerts are always a hit. A visit to a second-hand bookstore and an antiques shop can be a welcome diversion from the norm. So….who’s ready to pack a bag and join me? It’s time to hit the road!